Mabon: The Equinox Asks for Balance, Not Busyness
For one day the light and the dark are equal. Why the autumn equinox asks us to find the balance point rather than do more, and how to take stock in the house before the dark half of the year.
For one day the light and the dark are equal. Why the autumn equinox asks us to find the balance point rather than do more, and how to take stock in the house before the dark half of the year.
The first cold morning, a larder full of jars, the equinox on its way, and a first word about the Inner Chamber.
Surveys matter. So does the gate. How I read a house before anyone signs anything: the approach, the path, your body in the doorway, and five questions for every room.
Roots and wings. The two archetypes I meet most often, how they show up in our homes, and how to give each of them a place when both live in you.
If you want to know where the sun is in my house, find the dog. What a princess of a dog knows about reading a house, and a small practice for using the warm spots we deny ourselves.
Sometimes the most honest answer is not to rearrange the furniture. On the quiet signs that a house can no longer hold you, and how to leave well when it is time.
A shelf of chipped, mismatched teacups, and a case for keeping what you love without apology. On objects that carry us, and how to tell them from the ones that weigh us down.
A beautiful townhouse, a spotless kitchen, and a woman who could not bear to be in it. What the house was saying, and the small changes that let the fire be lit again.
The first harvest, the Reaper's sense for ripeness, and the strange beauty of seed heads. A month for asking not what else to start, but what is ready to be cut.
The Hearth House, the Lookout, the Keeper of Secrets, the Performer and the Crooked Cottage. On the archetypal signatures of houses, and what happens when their personalities clash with ours.
Tomatoes on the windowsill, apricots on the rack and a dog on the cellar steps. A July letter from a gloriously untidy kitchen, with a grandmother's hot-weather ritual.
Nearly every house has one: the room with the door kept shut. What usually lives behind it, why it is not a failure, and how to open it gently.